Ever loose a friend ?

Why sure you have , there must be thousands of reasons friendship can be lost . Happens all the time . Lets face it we are not all the same and to us what seems important isn't the same for the next guy . Well these differences are bond to come up and if a person tries to avoid these differences their really not much of a friend in some ways .

I think the worst type of a friend is a whatever friend , they kinda accept you as what ever you think is fine by me . Well, that's as weak as friendship comes , what ever this or what ever that , nope nothing really matters cause that's all the effort I'm going to put into our friend ship is really what they are all about . Fair weather kinda people .

Well I dont have any time for what ever people or much respect for that matter . I've found I can have good friends who completely disagree with me , Yeah, I might not agree with them but you have to respect a person who isn't wishy washy even if you think they are wrong .

I kinda think its this respect that kinda acts as gravity after a explosion that that makes a person fall back to earth not far from the friend who exploded as well .

I'm glad we are all different in a lot of ways , if I hung out with only those that felt the same way I did what would I really learn ? Why sure we could go around and pat each other on the back and say how smart we are , but that's about all your going to have , a group of back slappers who dont consider anything else or really test themselves , or even make a stand on something important to them .

Well I want to be tested and challenged , and I want to challenge others . Dose this make my argumentative ? Yup sure dose , But I'd rather be argumentative with something I believe in instead of wishy washy where nothing is important , there's no respect there .

I know I carry it to far at times , but you have to understand in my mind that's better than not carrying it far enough , much better . Its my nature to just over build instead of under build .

Respect is the gravity that brought a friend together , and after the thousands of ways there is to loose a friend there is only one way that will bring these friendships in flux back , respect .

So , with as much respect as I can type out today let me say if I didn't respect a person I wouldn't bother to be as argue-mental as I know I am . If I thought a person to be wishy washy , for me and them that's a waste of time , what ever people always loose cause they are never right .

OK . maybe I need to be less argumentative , perhaps . Maybe its a poor excuse , but I dont feel I'm being negative if its the most positive way for me and others to learn , maybe how I go about it is wrong , but I believe the concept is true and the end result is respect and a more refined friendship worth keeping and worth fighting for , kinda like I'm doing now .

Well thanks Cactus , I guess I was in some what of a funk , your post came across as a bleed over from that GW thread and I wasn't sure how you meant to leave things , so not taking a chance I knew how I wasn't going to leave it .

Besides , it gave me a chance to say some things how I felt , over all I've haven't been happy about some things and I wanted to clear the air .

Mt. ELden ? Good luck , I was going to ATV up Navajo MT , but my kinda step kid as guide says it would be best to go up Tsgi canyon to Keet Seel for Easter. Been wanting to go up there anyway , I keep hearing about some cannon about the size a ford rear axle , about 6-7 feet long they say . If true it ain't nothing Kit Carson would drug considering the size . Must be Spanish if anything if at all .

Heck I've been looking for lost Spanish mines since as a kid with my Pop ,

Tell what I have found , I've found it takes a really poor town that cant afford a lost gold mine story---- or two . Later Cactus .